Grown white men, called Patrick Clinger, CEO of ProBoards, ordered admins to not support the idea of creating support group/community for marginalized people.
Why is it important to support MAPs, and to have support groups for them? The answer is very simple.
EVIDENCE SUGGEST THAT MARGINALIZATION AND STIGMATIZATION OF MAPs CAN INCREASE THE CHANCES OF CHILD ABUSE AND OFFENCE.
According to researches, if MAPs feel depressed, lonely, and are isolated and marginalized, without ability to find a way to get emotional support to reduce the bad emotions, caused by the society’s hate towards them, this will make them more likely to “offend” or “re-offend”. According to the latest evidence, the best way to keep them from “offending”, is by giving them enough support and love.
Support and love! This is what tried to give them, but i was blocked from giving it.
Patrick Clinger is a white person who created service that allows users to create forums. I registered on their Support-Board, so i can ask my questions about the forum i want to create.
I tried to find specific rules to see if they allow such support groups to exist on their platform, but i didnt find any rules. This is because i registered on their Support-Board, so i can ask the question directly.
Here is a photo of part one:
I understand why they answered with this answer. The answer “This does not sound like something that would be allowed under the TOS.” was written, because they maybe thought that im going to allow illegal content. After i have read their answer, i said that im not going to allow any illegal content. After i explained that im not going to allow any illegal content, i thought they will allow me to create forum, because i promised im not going to allow any illegal content. I also thought they understood me in a wrong way that made them to think that the activity in my forum, will violate the “TOS”, and after i explained im not going to allow any illegal content, i thought they will re-think their statement about my forum violating their “TOS”.
Here is the second photo:
After when i said: “Even if any kinds of illegal content is not allowed?”, they still said im not allowed to create the forum. Okay! Here is something very wrong. According to their rules, users are allowed to have forums, if users DON’T upload any illegal content. When i said im NOT GOING TO UPLOAD ANY ILLEGAL CONTENT, they still told me that im not allowed to create the forum.
They didn’t say that my forum will violate the rules. They said that they don’t want to host the forum. I will repeat it again: THEY REFUSED TO HOST MY FORUM, NOT BECAUSE MY FORUM VIOLATES THE RULES, BUT BECAUSE THEY DON’T WANT TO HOST FORUM THAT IS A SUPPORT-GROUP FOR MARGINALIZED PEOPLE.
The bad thing is that they refused to host the forum, because they prefer to have good reputation, instead of helping marginalized people and protecting children. They probably thought that my forum is going to ruing their reputaton. No! If i was allowed to have forum, the forum would be private forum, not public forum.
I wanted to have a forum where marginalized people can find support, so they can prevent themselves from doing illegal things. If they feel lonely and marginalized, they are more likely to do illegal things.
Rad this again:
Why is it important to support MAPs, and to have support groups for them? The answer is very simple. According to researches, if MAPs feel depressed, lonely, and are isolated and marginalized, without ability to find a way to get emotional support to reduce the bad emotions, caused by the society’s hate towards the, this will make them more likely to “offend” or “re-offend”. According to the latest evidence, the best way to keep them from “offending”, is by giving them enough support and love.
And because they didn’t respect my desire to help people, i decided to delete my forum from their platform.
What im going to do now? I want to help to reduce the emotional pain of people. I want to protect their human rights. What im planning to do, is to open my private fact-checker about marginalized people, so i can debunk all myths surrounding these marginalized people. It’s important to debunk these myths, because these myths create distraction from the reality, and these myths make marginalized people to look like monsters, which makes these people not able to have relationships, friends, which increases the chances of “offence”.
My fact-checker will be ready in one month. It will take me time until i write the code for the web page. Im also planning to open private forum on my own hosting, so no one can censor me. I would like to have even website, but alone i can’t make complex codes. For now, i will try to satify the situation by creating fact-checker and a forum. Firstly, i will make the fact-checker, and the forum later.
I met activists that are trying to make a group, so marginalized people can be united. By “group”, i mean organization. I dont know them in the real life, because they are from Mexico, India, and Russia. I dont speak english very well, so i really cant help them in the real life. But what i can do, is to help online. So, im going to help online. I hope my help will make people happy. I feel the need to expose all bad/damaging stereotypes and myths surrounding marginalized people.
I will do everything possible to reach my goal. If we want to protect children, we have to make evidence-based laws that will contribute to the destigmatization of marginalized people, which will lead to freedom to get support, so they wont make illegal things.
Instead of focusing on emotions and big words such as “rapists” and “pedophilies” to create sensationalism, we need to think critically, so we can really help people.