“I don’t want to ban all porn, but I want to barn more porn”. The problem is that you want to ban porn on an arbitrary standard based not in any research but in a blind false belief in “normalization” that you can’t even define. Pornographic materials that hurt people are already banned.
No, it’s not like a drug, and I provided you with references that showed that at a neurological level, watching pornography has a completely different pathway than using drugs. Withdrawal is not the only difference between your “porn addiction” and actual clinical addiction.
If you want to solve porn addiction, the trick is simple. Reduce your sexual frustration with masturbation, but without pornography. The materials about “porn addiction” tell people to completely avoid masturbating all together, which naturally makes them more sexually frustrated and less able to resist sexual temptations.
There has been no strong evidence of porn addiction being a real addiction, DSM-5 excluded porn addiction as a legitimate disorder, and behavioural addictions, in general, are considered as pseudoscience used to scam people to purchase scammy self-help books from various fake gurus.
There is a lot of positives from watching pornography, albeit they come from masturbation. Reducing the risk of prostate cancer in men, they also allow disrupting the periods of anhedonia in people with depression and help to reduce stress levels significantly, to name the few.
It also helps people to reduce the levels of sexual frustration, making them think more rationally and not make stupid mistakes like dating someone that isn’t good for them.
People who believe in porn addiction tend to separate sexuality as this mystical unknown thing, making them apply a special value to it, that makes the regular things feel special if they are in any way mixed with sexuality.
Most people spend more time watching regular movies on Netflix or TV daily, than on porn, yet you don’t see people screaming, that we have an epidemy of TV series addicts.
So why is porn addiction treated as something that is real while movie addiction isn’t? Both activities bring pleasure, but only a single one of them has an ideological opposition that denies science in a blind belief that every evil of this world can be boiled down to a single variable because the idea of eliminating only a single thing is much more comforting for a lazy person than a realization, that the problem is caused by a chaotic set of millions of variables that will require continues work to combat.
I don’t think it’s nice for you to call Michael Seto a deviant form of porn. I don’t think there is anything deviant about him.
No one denies it. But you have a weird compulsive need to constantly signalize this virtue. Which looks almost like you don’t really believe it, and you try to reaffirm yourself in this belief by repeating your slogans since you don’t really know why it should stay banned.
Also, if you Like Michael Seto so much, I think that must mean you agree, that pedophilia is a sexual orientation.
“He has argued forcefully for pedophilia to be thought of as a sexual orientation — an idea he acknowledges is controversial, but hopes will actually help prevent child abuse.”
That mandatory reporting laws make it incredibly risky for pedophiles to tell therapists about their desires, and should be eliminated because they can be misunderstood by the therapists and prevent pedophiles from seeking help.
“Pedophiles will remain hidden if they continue to be hated and feared, which would impede efforts to better understand this sexual orientation and thereby prevent child sexual exploitation,”
That public sex offender list that he Canadian government announced, is misguided:
" The Harper government recently announced tougher measures against child predators, including a public sex offender registry. Seto says this is misguided,"
And that child sex offenders should be reintegrated into the society:
“One of the worries would be that would further drive individuals underground,” he says. “It could also lead to problems that decrease the likelihood they can successfully be integrated.”
I wonder what the 4 of your facebook friend on this group will think about you. Especially considering you make an argument from authority to confirm your beliefs that are contradictory to that of the authority you used.