I hate every single sort of argument of this whole “this contributes to x” or “this normalizes y” crowd, I have an special hatred for people who hate on women who are wearing"childish" fashion such as kawaii fashion. They say that they are contributing to the attraction of random men and even worse, contributing to the sexual abuse of young children just by the way they dress up. (?) They say that they contribute to a culture of pedophilia, just because they happen to have a style which is on the cute side? It’s not even just with kawaii fashion, e girl, lolita and coquette girls receive the same treatment as well. No one is responsible for another person’s behavior by the way they dress or act.
I legitimately hate people who say that women who wear Kawaii fashion are contributing to pedophilia
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Barring Islamic countries and the like, there are no laws against what one can wear, especially if they are legally adults. Like I said, I feel a certain degree of power when people hate me but can do nothing lawful against me.
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It’s really sad when obese women try to wear those things to try to look cute. It’s not something I needed to see!
I do enjoy it when young girls dress the part! I don’t find it sexually attractive, just super cute and fun! Especially when they get all the little detail accessories right with a cute hairstyle! Just fun to see! 
But when AMABs try to do it, eew!! Not!!
These are all my personal opinion. Anyone can wear anything they like!
I have long hair. I like wearing my hairclip. The scrunchie knots it up. You won’t see me wearing a dress or make-up ever. Some guys do the hair bun thing. I don’t like it and I think it looks silly. Overcompensating with full beards.
Topic being, saying something is contributing to some other, semi-related problem/issue; is just people’s imaginations running away with their oversexed, repressed, perverted minds. So women and girls should stop wearing bikinis and dress fully covered at the beach? Like they did in the 1920s? Or perhaps all women should wear burkes on a daily basis?
People are so quick to label and judge others. Mind your own business!
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What gets me is that people who have such opinions often are feminists. Like, if it contributes to something, then if a pedophile sexually harrased a woman wearing kawaii fashion then it’s her fault as she is contributing to his behavior? Is it the woman’s fault if a man followed her on Instagram and that man sexually assaulted a child? Of course not! No one should stop wearing what they want just because you find it creepy or some pedophiles may find their clothes cute or sexy. Amazing how they blame the pedophilia problem not on tabus, not on the lack of help that pedophiles receive due to the stigma, not on the social hierarchy, not on the corruptness of the government, not on the lack of instructions on how to recognize the abuse but on random women wearing what they want and lolicon! It feels like they don’t even care about the children.
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Generally these “normalization” arguments fail, because they don’t take into account how these fashions or depictions normalize something, namely, those fashions and depictions themselves. If it normalizes pedophilia, then good! Because guess what, pedophilia is just a set of desires and fantasies. That should be normalized, because fantasies and desires hurt no one. And if we normalize the use of fantasy outlets, be it lolita fashions in adult models, or fictional representations, then that will only create a culture where people with certain desires, namely, pedophilic desires, can find fulfillment through harmless outlets.
These things do not normalize acts of sexual abuse against children. That is a moronic assumption. People can distinguish reality from imagination. And for those that say that stories make you feel things and can have an impact: yes, they do, and that does not mean you still cannot distinguish a story or imagination from whatever else happens in reality.
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Nowadays, “feminists” and the like want to “save” people, like the Inquisition tried to “save” souls. Their so-called “salvation” makes me nauseous.
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Yeah, it makes me mad because it’s so stupid. They fight for women to have the freedoms of choice but hate on women wearing goddam clothes.
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The moral busybody is a more repulsive tyrant than the most selfish robber baron.
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