Full disclosure: bit of a clickbaity title. Her reasons for suicide could very well have had nothing to do with the accusations. But all the news sites are reporting on her death this way, and I myself can’t think of a better way to word it.
Anyways, multiple news sites are talking about OnlyFans/Instagram model Diana Deets (aka Coconut Kitty) committing suicide. She was the subject of much controversy, as she would filter her pics to make herself look much younger than she really was (24, for the record), and so she was oft accused of pandering to pedophiles.
According to the news articles, she claimed she wanted to look like an anime character, to create a fantasy and make money sharing that fantasy. She didn’t leave behind any reason why she killed herself other than “the darkness that weighed on her heart”.
I decided to sift through some old posts on Reddit and such about her. So many people calling her disgusting for “trying to make herself look like a sexy 12yo” or “promoting the sexualization of young girls”. Posts calling her disgusting and shameful, even accusing her of grooming.
From what I’ve gathered, she was a kind person. A mother, sister, and daughter who was good to her friends and family, took care of animals, loved to create, etc. A headstrong, energetic person. Condolences to her loved ones. RIP.
This goes to show that kids and MAPS aren’t the only ones that are harmed by this pedo panic or the prevention of “normalizing pedophilia”. Similarly to how she was treated just for looking youthful, people within the adult baby and diaper lovers community also have dealt with pedophile accusations for a long time.
I understand these accusations were not likely to be the only reason this person committed suicide, but it certainly didn’t help.
I’m just… so awe-struck at this, the callousness of people, the unawareness, the pure… I don’t like to use this term, but just… evil.
It’s evil what happened to this woman, what she was driven to do. I’ve probably said it before, but I fear no man more than he who thinks his actions unquestionable and his morality just, especially in the face of harm. I fear that, and I hate that, but then it becomes paradoxical in a way, so I have to moderate it.
The News’ source said that his mother beat the child with a belt because he continued to touch his penis after being told not to, and then housemate Dadaille took over because he didn’t think she was doing it hard enough. He was left in the bathtub, urinating blood, for two days, while the couple told relatives that he had the flu.
Well, that’s one of the worst crimes I’ve had the displeasure of reading about. And I’ve researched a LOT about TrueCrime. Beating a 4yo to the point he was immobile and pissing blood? For such a nothing reason? Seriously?
Update: I’ve read some more recent Reddit posts regarding CoconutKitty and her suicide:
These comments come across to me as largely unsympathetic. There’s the usual RIPs, but many of these very same comments still mention stuff like “…but she still shouldn’t have been pedobaiting. Condolences to her family.”
There’s one comment I read that basically says “So what? It’s what she deserves for making cp.” Got many upvotes, that one…
You mean photoshops of her own grownass self!!! I felt my face get red and I loudly swore at my phone when I read that. Dammit, I need to take some deep breaths and a drink of water…
I looked up what pictures I could find of Coconut Kitty. Some of the pictures did have a youthful facial appearance, but certainly nothing I would consider to look like an actual child. Given the viciousness of some of those Reddit comments, I wonder if they give the same treatment to anyone that happens to have a baby face. A lot of women strive to have a more youthful appearance as they age, but I guess that’s not allowed anymore. Looks like we need to ban makeup, plastic surgery, and photoshop now. Just think of how many children that will surely protect…
There’re people who shame models and pornstars just for looking underage. Too short, too small, etc. Straight-up trying to block people from entering certain industries just for how they look.
